A question for boy ^.^ (not girl)

[sonlieuvn]

Oneday , you identify your girlfriend lost her chastity :oh: What do you think about it ? What will you do ? Do you want to get her away ? to angry and say goodbye with her because she cheat you a long time ?

[buidoi_1life1love]

Oneday , you identify your girlfriend lost her chastity :oh: What do you think about it ? What will you do ? Do you want to get her away ? to angry and say goodbye with her because she cheat you a long time ?

"chastity" I believe people often use "virginity" instead. Lolz, why would you care about that? If it's the past, then just let it go. By the way, this "virginity" issue isn't as much important as it was before since society and culture have changed tremendously in its perspectives towards females. How come it is ok for a guy to have ... before marriage, but not a girl? Moreover, it's rare to find a girl who "hasn't done it" these days if you know what I mean. Keep an open-minded mind.

[06.30.09]

i also agree to what buidoi said above, virginity is no longer an important issue :sr:

[Sunshine*]

This question is actually an opinion, there is no right or wrong answer but to some people, they still think it is an important issue. It's what you think and believe in.

[Ngày Hôm Qua]

Difficult question, I rather not to answer. However I should not love any girl, so I don't have to worry about this issue

[moneygod]

What I want is her heart but nothing else.

[BIGSAM]

Hey...that's Not Really A Problem.....the Thing Here Is Dat....how Does She Treat U...and Love U...u Know....nothing's Perfect So U Cant Find Anthing Or Anybody Perfect....just Take It Ez

[bebadboy87]

I often speak to my girl friend " No problem "
And this was the answer either for this the question.
If you loves her. Will you love all of what be of her !!!

[sonlieuvn]

Woo.... You have believed in herself by all of your hopes , she said that she loved you and never cheated you. And oneday she hurt you alot . Maybe, some opinion admit that we shouldn't angry or get her away..ect... ! However, Will you be sure that you can calm yourself down, step to her side and console her? I don't believe you can keep cold-composedness in this situation !

[Kimmie]

OK I see, so the problem is she cheated you that she never lied you, right? The problem now is not is she a virgin or not ^^.

But why? She couldnt tell you the truth becase she thought that you would think she was a great liar and dissapointed at her, she loved you, I think, and that's the reason why she didnt tell you the truth.

I think we have our own thought ^^. It depens on the situation and the feeling of the boy. If he knows that she lied just because she loved him, it'll be hard but he can forgive.
But in fact, not many boy can, all most will say goodbye and think "How silly am I!"

[Babo Oppa]

well... i dun think the virgnity is that important... cuz what if you had ... with ur ex gf... and she had ... with her ex bf??... why would you get mad at her when is not??... :hihi:

[LingSan]

hmmm....nowaday , Lost chastity is very popular , while i don't like it >.< , i have to recognize that its not important in love , love felt by your heart , not felt from her virginity.........

[lehoangel]

I won't accept any cheat in love

[buidoi_1life1love]

I won't accept any cheat in love

Then you're selfish and self-centered. Moreover, you would never find love.

[lehoangel]

That's my rule. Not only in love but also in life.

[sonlieuvn]

That's my rule. Not only in love but also in life.

Woo....Guys we are the same, I never accept any cheat in loves. I always think that the straight speech and the real is the best for loves all the time, So when I find any girlfriends, I always remind her about it, never cheat me, just say the true.

[sonlieuvn]

OK I see, so the problem is she cheated you that she never lied you, right? The problem now is not is she a virgin or not ^^.

But why? She couldnt tell you the truth becase she thought that you would think she was a great liar and dissapointed at her, she loved you, I think, and that's the reason why she didnt tell you the truth.

I think we have our own thought ^^. It depens on the situation and the feeling of the boy. If he knows that she lied just because she loved him, it'll be hard but he can forgive.
But in fact, not many boy can, all most will say goodbye and think "How silly am I!"

Yah...I see, maybe She wouldn't like to hurt me so She lies me a long time. However, Cheat and Lies is the same meaning that just hurt myself more than the real. If she said the real in first time we met, maybe everythings was ok at the moment. but she have did the contrarily.

[lehoangel]

There are somethings cannot be told in the first time you met, baby :rain: However, I like your character :)

[sonlieuvn]

There are somethings cannot be told in the first time you met, baby :rain: However, I like your character :)

However I was kinds of the people who can accept the things by the first time. Maybe...If she known it, All the things will be changed.

[buidoi_1life1love]

Woo....Guys we are the same, I never accept any cheat in loves. I always think that the straight speech and the real is the best for loves all the time, So when I find any girlfriends, I always remind her about it, never cheat me, just say the true.

So you two are on the same boat which is about to sink:bicycle:

[Seafoam]

Difficult question, I rather not to answer. However I should not love any girl, so I don't have to worry about this issue
If you think u should not be in love with any girl ,i've just wondered who u should be in love with :rang:
Now a day this issue is seem not so important,but i think with our culture it's still very !But if you're a man ,you have the right to care about your girlfriend cos only that can improve that she is a traditional girl and behaved !

[nhoc con xinh]

ok i see u, no problem 'cause she cheat u but she also love you!:fi:

[Ngày Hôm Qua]

If you think u should not be in love with any girl ,i've just wondered who u should be in love with :rang:
Now a day this issue is seem not so important,but i think with our culture it's still very !But if you're a man ,you have the right to care about your girlfriend cos only that can improve that she is a traditional girl and behaved !

Uhm!!! no wonder I'm still alone :timvo: I'm not really a traditional guy. You know love is too complicated, so it is very very difficult to find a real love. I don't want my heart to be broken by unfaithful girl.:bicycle:

[Chi Lan]

Yah...I see, maybe She wouldn't like to hurt me so She lies me a long time. However, Cheat and Lies is the same meaning that just hurt myself more than the real. If she said the real in first time we met, maybe everythings was ok at the moment. but she have did the contrarily.

:hihi:
At the first time you met... how could she say: "Hi, nice to meet you, I'm not a virgin, but you still can love me :D", right? ^^ I do know what you mean but... I can't keep laughing when I saw "at the first time we met" ^^
I agree, she can't lie, but may be she HASN'T tell you the truth, she planned to, but you indentify it before she tells it... then you think she hides the truth, how 'bout that? ^^

[StevenDinh]

:hihi:
At the first time you met... how could she say: "Hi, nice to meet you, I'm not a virgin, but you still can love me :D", right? ^^ I do know what you mean but... I can't keep laughing when I saw "at the first time we met" ^^
I agree, she can't lie, but may be she HASN'T tell you the truth, she planned to, but you indentify it before she tells it... then you think she hides the truth, how 'bout that? ^^

That's the key make me and my girlfriend go away (Never see again) :hiepsi: :thatall:

[moneygod]

Uhm!!! no wonder I'm still alone :timvo: I'm not really a traditional guy. You know love is too complicated, so it is very very difficult to find a real love. I don't want my heart to be broken by unfaithful girl.:bicycle:
well, "Love conquers all" :D use ur "brain" to prevent it :cr:

[Ngày Hôm Qua]

What happen if your brain make a mistake? your heart will be broken? It is unfair,right?
your brain makes that decision, but your heart is hurt.

[StevenDinh]

(sigh).......That's a hard question............but if you love with your whole heart. You'll know what's the real love, and about our brain????It not a trouble with us when we "fall in love"...

[cobelolem2905]

don't worry
if you love her (or him) you'll find the real love

[jinny_mimi]

its a eally opinion question...let see because i am a girl so i think virginia is still a raelly important issue but for a special reason ....it's ok.

[KT-Khói Thuốc]

The problem is as small as the............ mountain :so_funny: jk........ as long as she truly loves you, then you gotta love her instead of leaving her :rain:

[Chi Lan]

That's the key make me and my girlfriend go away (Never see again)

Yeah yeah, but someone said that he wanted his girlfriend to tell him the truth at the 1st time they met, so I asked him that question. Of course I know noone will say like that at the first time... she must wait for good chance to tell him.

Few, nothing to discuss here. You see.
If your girlfriend didnt tell you the truth, and you cant sympathize, say goodbye... she was wrong, you are wrong, no need to discuss... but if she hasn't tell you the truth and you think that she wanna hide... it's a pitty, you're just a selfish one, not better than her.