should i go out with him?

[beoidethuong]

( first of all, please dont deletee my post,...i wannted to type in viet, however, my viet typig skill type aint that good,...so can ypou guys please let me type in english...please..thankyou )................................................. ....................After I broke up with him...4 others boys went up and asked me to be theiir gf....all of them love me so much that they dont want to see me getting hurted...i rejected the 1st three boys...however, thiis 4th one..he luvs me soo much..he said hhe would wait for me..and help me to heal the wound in my heart...i started to have some feeling calleed " somewhere above the friendship line" for him..he has been sooo nice to mee..i thought I have fallen in loe with him...but today...i just realiized that all I did was using him to full fill the empty space that my ex left in me...I want to tell him that I dont likee him but just using himm..but I also dont want to hurt him..i also dont want to have another empty space inside of me...should I stop usiing him..i know its unfair for him...should I tell hm to go and look for other ppl,???>..should I tell him that iii cant accept hiim as my bf????>...i feel so bad for using him =( ( he looks a lot like me ex by the way ) =(.

[cactushb]

hãy làm theo tình cảm của chính mình đi bạn.

[lovely_ploy]

CHO mik một cơ hội đi bạn dù ng` đó là vật thay thế thì biết đâu sau này bạn lại thik a ta thật thì sao? đừng để mik phải hối hân.Bạn đã sai khi ngộ nhận tình cảm của mik nhưng hay cho tình cảm ấy 1 cơ hội
Nếu sau đó thấy rằng mik với a ấy chỉ có thể là bạn thì hãy nói ra đi nếu cứ để như vậy bạn đau khổ mà a ta kũng là ng`thật tội nghiệp và đáng thương
(mik là fan của "mỗi teen là 1 việt nam" nên mik thích nói tiếng mẹ đẻ hơn thông cảm bạn nhé mik là teen Việt Nam mà )

[phonglinh709]

thế này thì bạn phải khoc to lên sau đó bụt sẽ hiện lên hỏi tại sao con khóc khi đó bạn sẽ được trả lời nhé
tại hạ xin bó tay

[lovely_ploy]

Các quân sư bó tay oy kia tội nghiệp chàng trai đó wa suy nghĩ kĩ bạn nha

[beoidethuong]

I talked to him yesterday...he was very upset...he said he is gonna wait for me =( ..i feel soo bad now..wat should I do?..should I be cold to him?..or should I still keep talking to him??>.i dun. No wat to do.... =(

[lovely_ploy]

ca này bó tay oy nhưng cậu vẫn nên nói chuyện với a ấy đừng cho ng` ta ăn bánh bơ tội nghiệp lắm vì bạn làm a ta tôn thương thế là wá đủ oy

[Nothingisforever]

chuyện bạn nè giống mình woa!!hjx hjx h mình cũng chẳng biết phải làm thế nào?????

[Kienfa]

The true is alway the best solution, cause sooner or later he 'll know the true,like in the bible that the old used to say "treat other as you would like to be treated", if you already told him how you feel, it's a good sign that you stop in time before it gone out of hand, if he want to wait, just let him be, who know what the future might bring, but don't force yourself to love for any reasons than real love.

You better take time off with love for now, the empty feeling àfter broke up is normal , and being vulnerable after a broke up easily let you fall into another "love" that availble to fill the empty heart.

Take time off for awhile and unstill your mind are back to nomal state, then take another step, you're still young so don't rush, especially in love , take a step back you will see the picture wider. Good luck.

[beoidethuong]

chuyện bạn nè giống mình woa!!hjx hjx h mình cũng chẳng biết phải làm thế nào?????

day la lan dau tien miinh thay co nguoi cung hoan canh voi miinh do...neu vay chac ban cung understand how I feel rite now?.... I dun no wat to do either....i just broke up with my bf...and rejected 3 other of my frneds ( they aksed me out rite after I broke up)...theen rejected this one..but he keeps saying hes gonna wait for me..><..i serously dun no wat to do..now..one of my other friend just asked me to be his gf!!!!...troiii. Oiiii....cai gi ma ti tap tum lum..=( ... I wanna disappear soo much..i wanna go away.. =(k

[beoidethuong]

The true is alway the best solution, cause sooner or later he 'll know the true,like in the bible that the old used to say "treat other as you would like to be treated", if you already told him how you feel, it's a good sign that you stop in time before it gone out of hand, if he want to wait, just let him be, who know what the future might bring, but don't force yourself to love for any reasons than real love.

You better take time off with love for now, the empty feeling àfter broke up is normal , and being vulnerable after a broke up easily let you fall into another "love" that availble to fill the empty heart.

Take time off for awhile and unstill your mind are back to nomal state, then take another step, you're still young so don't rush, especially in love , take a step back you will see the picture wider. Good luck.

OMG!..you are the FIRST person who typed iin completely eng for me..omg..thx ><' ....i no the true is the best solution..but..it also the one thing that hurts you the most!..ii talked to hiim..but he saiid he is gonna wait for me..i asked him wat he sees iin me that makes him liikes me so much..he said my characteristic....><' he said all the gud things aout me...=( ...which was not a gud thing to do wen you weree tryiing to let someone no that you dont like him. =( ....idk wat to do anymore..lifeis so complicate..ppl say " ppl change, things go wrong, life goes on".. I dun see how " life goes on" at all =(

[lovely_ploy]

h chỉ biết nọi 1 cậu chúc bạn may mắn dù quyết định thế nào thì đó kũng là con đường của bạn

[beoidethuong]

Thx ><' ......................

[hatethatiloveu]

i think you are too selfish, eventhough you don't love someone, you should respect him. Maybe he don't blame fof u but u should blame for urself. you're hurted but it didn't mean that you had him suffer instead of u. i'm sorry that i'm to strict but i appreciate that u had talked to him fairfully. good luck to you
mình nghĩ cậu ích kỉ quá, khi không yêu thì cũng phải tôn trọng người ấy chứ, có thể cậu ấy sẽ không trách cậu, nhưng mà cậu nên tự trách mình khi gây tổn thương cho cậu ấy.Mình đau không có nghĩa là mình được phép bắt người khác đau hộ mình. Mình xin lỗi nếu đã hơi nặng lời, ủng hộ vì bạn đã nói chuyện với cậu ấy. Cậu nên sửa và viết bằng tiếng việt nhé, mình là người Việt Nam mà... chúc bạn may mắn

[beoidethuong]

1st....if i know how to type in viet then i already DID..type in eng isnt fun AT ALL....NOT MANY PPL UNDERSTAND WAT I TYPED......secondly..i know im a little too selfish...but i already told him that i dont like him..but he keeeps on saying that hes gonna wait for me! HOW WOULD U REACT IF U R IN MY SITUATION HUH?...3rd ; i know im viet....... but still...i dont live in vn....its rly hard for me to ghet along with the viet culture and typing in viet.SRY. =(

[Kienfa]

Usually the true is hard to accept, and it hurt in your case for what ever that had happened but it will not eating your soul alive if you told the true, both of you are hurting, but in a long shot it can help you face yourself.

If you like or in love then you only see the good side of that some one, that what they call "beauty is in the eye of the beholder" so don't bother or feel bad too much of how he think about you, he deserve the true even it hurt , you didn't feel right and you did let him know, now treat him like a friend and that's it . Life is hard, love is complicated and not everything in life goes the way we want it to. So, face it girl, think of it like the first taste of real life, hope you 'll find peace in your heart and again, don't rush ... :sr:

Some time you need to say no, and don't just stand in the same place to look at an object, try another angle and you will see that it's not that bad like you thought it was.

[beoidethuong]

Usually the true is hard to accept, and it hurt in your case for what ever that had happened but it will not eating your soul alive if you told the true, both of you are hurting, but in a long shot it can help you face yourself.

If you like or in love then you only see the good side of that some one, that what they call "beauty is in the eye of the beholder" so don't bother or feel bad too much of how he think about you, he deserve the true even it hurt , you didn't feel right and you did let him know, now treat him like a friend and that's it . Life is hard, love is complicated and not everything in life goes the way we want it to. So, face it girl, think of it like the first taste of real life, hope you 'll find peace in your heart and again, don't rush ... :sr:

Some time you need to say no, and don't just stand in the same place to look at an object, try another angle and you will see that it's not that bad like you thought it was.

awwwwwww....your advices are always sooo helpful and understandable..yea..ii think I rly should take off for a while...I still need to care about my education first lol..being a junoir in high schul in usa iis like the hardest thing EVER...and like while I was still dating my ex, all my averages dropped from a's to b's.. =( ...you have to pay a price for luv >< ..anyhow..thankyou sooo much for all of urs advices....thankyou...cam on ^^ ....I will try my best to solve this problem =)